I am really shocked. I am doing a major cleaning/purging of stuff in my house and my idea was to Feng Shui each area as I went, but I got a little anxious and decided to start a Helpful People Box. I put in the name of a friend I just couldn’t get a hold of and the name of my husband. I had to – I was getting so frustrated with having to do everything by myself. Two days later, he did the dishes (3rd time all year), took out the trash, cooked dinner, went grocery shopping, and even …Read More
Using Feng Shui for “Your Agenda” VS “What’s Best” — It All Works Out in the End
Even though I’ve been doing this feng shui thing for a long time, I still find myself amazed at how miraculously things work themselves out when I “get out of the way.” It always seems to work out in the end — even if we set aside our “bull-dozing” efforts! Isn’t that a relief to know??? (Stop squirming fellow “bull-dozers!”) I just have to tell you this story about my son getting into high school as I think it perfectly demonstrates how a “highest good” type of intention can be the most rewarding. After all, it isn’t helpful to wear …Read More
Improve Manifesting Odds for New Years Resolutions
Question: Do you have any tips for manifesting New Year’s Resolutions? Answer: Yes, I do! Do NOT just say it. Write it down! Make it real by dreaming about completing it and then WRITE it down on paper. My best advice is to write a story about what it’s going to be like once you have completed it. All this falls back to the book I highly recommend, Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting by Lynn Grabhorn. If you haven’t read it, I would try to make that your resolution! And if you have and you need additional resources, please …Read More
Holiday Help! – Avoiding Stress at Family Gatherings
So many people have written me recently stressing out because they are going to stressful family gatherings this month. What’s to stress out about? Use feng shui to your advantage before the reunion ever starts! “My family pigeon-holes me into someone I’m not anymore.” OR “My old classmates still think of me as a dweeb.” – Work the FAME AND REPUTATION GUA fire and light cures with the intention of allowing the universe to show you respect and know who you really are now! You can also dress powerfully by either hiding red on you or wearing red (preferably on …Read More
Feng Shui Success Story: Dealing with “Sucky Neighbors” & Mirrors
“For the last several months, I have been dealing with a very troublesome noisy neighbor situation. I love my apartment, and in all the years I’ve lived here, I had never had a neighbor problem until last fall, when a couple of very social guys moved in next door. They immediately began to have noisy parties nearly every weekend. Their party space was a large deck, located about fifty feet from my bedroom (our houses are VERY close together). I tried a variety of approaches over the months to help these guys understand my need for sleep…to no avail. Letters …Read More
Mountain Energy
I just returned from Canada and had to show off one of my photos from Banff. I’m standing just behind the awesome Banff Springs Hotel here where you can just sit, relax, and enjoy the view. Check out those mountains. So stable, so alive yet still, so relaxing. When you are in such a natural place as this, it is easy to feel the relating, still, strong, and majestic energies of mountains. It is also easy to see the feng shui “form, shape, and flow” that we’re always trying to assign to our man-made environments. There’s nothing at a right angle or synthetic here, …Read More
Is Someone Else’s “Helpful People Box” Calling You to be a Helpful?
If you’ve read chapter 6 of my book, you know about the helpful people zone in your home and the “helpful people box” cure where , if you do this ritual/cure, you will indeed see life flowing a little easeir for you. But I was wondering the other day about how many times I AM the helpful person to others BECAUSE of their intentions and this cure. And then I thought, how many people out there have done up their helpful people gua and have their helpful people box all ready to go, but perhaps aren’t helpful to others, or …Read More
The Blessing of Synchronicity
There’s a big difference between having to go it alone with the mantra, “If I don’t do it , it doesn’t get done.” and being in sync with life. When you are in sync, life is easier, more fun, and certainly more interesting. Being in sync is a wondrous thing. People come out of the woodwork to scoot you along in life. This tends to result in you being more confident, more trusting, and ultimately more abundant and comfortable in life. If you’d like to have a more synchronous life, try this little feng shui tip. Add items made of …Read More
Feng Shui an RV? Why not?
Is it possible to feng shui a home on wheels? Heck yea!, Hey, you can feng shui ANYTHING just as long as you know how. There’s no need to leave the comfort of your perfectly feng shuied home and venture out in a “mobile home” that doesn’t have anything going for it! So, here are my tips: 1. Keep clutter to a minimum. If you are stepping over wet beach towels to get around, you are probably living in less than optimal chi. Only take the bare necessities and trust that you will come across everything you need when you …Read More


