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The Wrong Color for a Part of the Bagua – Q and A

 

It all depends on what is around it!

Question: I just read your book and am now rethinking my decor ideas.  I was just getting ready to hang a red curtain in my guest bathroom that falls in the Creativity and Children Gua, and white blinds in a window in the Family Gua window. What would you say to this?

 

Answer: If you only knew how many questions I get like this! The answer is: it depends.  Color is one of the MANY items you can use to cure a space, that is true. But unless EVERY SINGLE thing in the room is that same color (I hope not!) then you’ve got some aspects of other elements nearby as well.  There is also the “cover your butt” cure in my book that you might want to review. It states that if you don’t know if you’ve got too much of one element or not enough of another, then put some of every element there with good intentions and it will balance itself out! As a matter of fact, I would say to consider the shape of the item first, then it’s construction material, and then its color to decide what element it is if you are looking at these items from a 5 element perspective.

So, can your particular bathroom handle a red curtain – maybe! It depends. Sometimes red can be used in the Fame and Reputation Gua of THAT ROOM and there you go! Or perhaps everything is all dark blue or some other dark color (which would be considered water element with a downward flow), then perhaps a little upward moving fire element in the red curtain would be helpful.. One would really have to know the context of the particular item to have an opinion.

So, there you have it. Depending on the context, that one red curtain could be bad, could be good, could be neutral…it all depends. That’s why I do live and  telephone consultations (where people send me pictures and floor plans ) – it’s because I need to see what’s around each item and how it all works together.

Nothing is inherently good or bad feng shui. It just depends on where it is and what’s around it.

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Flushing Your “Ch’i” Away

Are Toilets Bad Feng Shui?

Question: How do I activate my wealth corner if a toilet is there? I do keep the toilet lid closed at all times but what should I place in that corner so that wealth is retained?

Answer: Good feng shui, bad feng shui, I know I scared half the world to death when I declared that toilets are a serious no-no in the prosperity gua (AKA, the back left-hand area of a room or building,) so let me at least try to rectify the situation with a little discussion about balancing toilets ANYWHERE, and then we’ll talk about the prosperity gua:

As you know, I don’t fix anything that “ain’t broken” so reflect on how long you’ve lived in the house and what has happened in your prosperity life while there. I say this because you may have counterbalancing measures in place and you don’t even know it! If you feel you could still use some enhancements, think about this:

Toilets take things away from the house. Try to prevent the good from going out with the bad.

My advice here when I do telephone and on-site feng shui consultations with my clients is to intend that the good chi of your home stay, and the negative chi go – Intend this while performing a ritual like: Use traditional feng shui cures by possibly placing red tape or ribbon around the toilet and the out-going pipes of the sink. You can also hang a crystal over a toilet with the intention of dispersing the chi horizontally so it doesn’t collectively go vertically down the drain. You can also use a small mirror on top of the toilet tank (or even inside the tank under the water, mirror side facing up) with the intention of reflecting the chi upward in this “downward pull zone.”

Toilets, as well as sinks and showers have a specific downward pulling energetic pattern – so they equal “water element” from feng shui’s five element point of view – so try to balance the overabundance of water element in these rooms.

My advice here is to not add more water element in the room or area. Stay away from decorating the bathroom with seashells, fish, ocean scenes, nautical themes, blues, black, etc. that symbolize more water element.  Decorate with items that depict earth energies (remember earth muddies the water in the destructive cycle) by using yellows, and earth tones, ceramic accessories, actual stones or rocks, mountains and earthy scenes in the art, etc. You can also decorate in fire element and “up stuff” as it exhibits an upward energetic vibrating pattern. This will start to counterbalance all the “down” that is currently going on in the bathroom. Use red tones and candles to add fire. The Sanseveria plant is a good choice to help keep the chi up. Have art that depicts “up stuff” like airplanes, hot air balloons, clouds, birds, helium-filled balloons, or the sun or stars (both fiery and up!). I think you get the picture here.

For most people, the perceptions of toilets are “dirty,” and “unsanitary,” and seen with our subconscious thought patterns as a “negative” item. Try to balance this negative symbol.

Use clean and fresh symbols like fresh flowers, fresh-scented candles, and for goodness sake, keep the bathroom clean. No mold growing on the curtain or windowsill, no toothpaste splatters on the mirror, no dirty laundry on the floor, etc.

If you make sure your bathrooms (no matter where they are in the house) are balanced, your prosperity, no doubt, will benefit.

Now, let’s talk about the fact that we want to actually enhance the prosperity gua and not simply counterbalance the bathroom.

My first thought is to check out the prosperity gua of EACH ROOM in the house. The bagua of the room is actually more powerful than the bagua of the house (I know, this is not in my book – I apologize! There’s a lot of stuff that’s not in there – it’s a small book! so check for weaknesses and strengths in these other areas. My second thought is to remind you that a gua is the entire one-ninth of a room or home, so try not to get caught up in the exact corner where the two walls meet, or along the wall of the guas that don’t have house corners in them. Say there’s a toilet there. I’ll bet your home is bigger than a grid of nine toilets. You’ve probably got a whole bunch of other space to work with. And remember the rule that it doesn’t have to be seen to work! Hide purple (the prosperity color) if it doesn’t fit into your design scheme. Place a powerful prosperity symbol in a drawer. It’s still there even if your eyeballs don’t see it!

And finally, I’d suggest checking your thoughts on prosperity.

Thoughts of prosperity include gratitude, giving, freedom, love, and joy just to name a few. Thoughts that drive prosperity away include fear, an “I want” or a “what’s in it for me” or an “It’s mine” mentality. A great first step to receiving is giving – and giving freely – without depressing “I can’t afford this” or “ I don’t trust the universe” attitude. If you need help unwinding your negative thoughts, just let me know and I’ll be glad to coach you out of them and into positive ones.

I hope I helped. Be sure to check out the feng shui product links and feng shui consulting option links if you need that kind of help.

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Feng Shui Info That is Not Covered in My Book “Move Your Stuff, Change Your Life”

Question #1: I know where the five elements fall on the bagua. It leaves the four corners “element-less.” Is there an element designation for these corners?

Answer #1: I know it is not in my book, but the main element for each of the four corner guas are, Earth in “Skills and Knowledge,” Wood in “Prosperity,” Earth in “Relationships,” and Metal in “Helpful People and Travel.”

Here’s a mini graphic of the pattern of how the elements are places in the bagua – the map of feng shui:

This side is the back of the room or home

WOOD (prosperity) FIRE (Fame and Reputation) EARTH (Love and Marriage)

WOOD (Family) EARTH (Health) METAL (Creativity and Children)

EARTH (Skills and Knowledge)   WATER (Career and Life Path)   METAL (Helpful People and Travel)

The door into the room or home is along this side

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Using the Feng Shui “Bagua”

Question: Is it more important to overlay the bagua onto the home or do each room when you start applying feng shui?

Answer: First, let me describe the bagua and then I’ll get into answering the question. The bagua is “the feng shui map” that you would use to arrange your spaces for optimal energy. If you get these proper natural patterns in your spaces, your life flows along more optimally, leaving your healthier, happier, etc.

Now, let me describe what Professor Lin said about this. (Before his recent death, He was the Grand Master of the Black Hat style of feng shui.) Professor Lin said, “What is closest to you influences you the most.” In other words, start your feng shui in the place where you spend the most time. For most people that is the bedroom. In my workshops, I often tell people to start with their bed in their bedroom, since that is the “most used” piece of furniture within the most used room. Take the nine colors of the bagua (make them bagua-shaped for added intention like that bagua daisy I mention in my book on page158) and place them around the bed for a quick color fix if you want. From left to right standing at the bottom of the bed, the blue, black and gray colors are along the bottom, and the purple, red and pink colors run along the top and of course, green, yellow and white are in the middle. Now, the bed has its own level of feng shui going on despite what’s going on in the room or the home.

Color is such a quick and easy way to start creating patterns that support positive chi. I often suggest doing this type of cure if you have to spend the night in the hospital too. I added this cure to my premature son’s isolette when he was born and he was released in half the time they originally predicted. Surround yourself with the color pattern if you perhaps you rent a room and have no say over the rest of the home or space. Hey, let’s start a prison program! Just think of the power of a bagua in each prison cell! (If anyone has any pull within this system, could you do an experiment and get back with me?)

So, to recap, I’d first cure the bed, applying the color and making sure it is in a safe and powerful position, then do the bedroom, and THEN overlay the bagua over the whole house.

I also suggest applying feng shui to each room if you have any confusion as to how the bagua overlays onto your house (listen up all you split-level people!) Do this also if you have any total missing pieces in the house. That way, the many baguas in the rooms will “shore up” a weak house.

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Pets versus a Love Life? Feng Shui Q and A

 

QUESTION: We got a cat in August and I discovered I was allergic to her. I close my bedroom door to keep her out. My bedroom is in the relationship area of my house. How can I keep the ch’i flowing? Is keeping my bedroom door closed closing off any relationships? I’m a single mom and would like to encourage energy into this part of my life. Any thoughts?

 

ANSWER: Sometimes doors closed makes a big difference in flow of ch’i and sometimes not. So, without personally assessing the situation, here are my suggestions:

First of all, ’d let you know that getting rid of the cat would be “the mundane cure” for this situation! Sometimes people want a cure that is very obscure and transcendental when the quickest path to take is plainly obvious. Allowing something in your home environment that negatively affects your health may be something to look into. Are you putting your children’s love of this animal in front of your personal health? Has this pattern appeared in past relationships? How often do you describe past relationships as “unhealthy?” I’m just trying to get you to be mindful here – don’t spaz out about it. Just notice…

If the cat stays, then take a look at the relationship gua OF EACH ROOM to see if all is well there (you can overlay the bagua on each room just like the whole house using the door to the room to align the bagua). If the relationship gua of the house is sluggish, then perhaps you can offset the imbalance by upgrading the energy in that gua of each room. Remember, if the home isn’t supporting you, then each room can.

Next, concentrate on the bedroom itself. Observe how you’ve set up this space to work for you in regard to gaining a healthy relationship. Avoid an abundance of “single woman art” (one woman within the frame.) Try to get a fair representation of both male and female energies in your room. If the room is very feminine, add something that feels masculine. Does “he” have his own nightstand? Give the future man some space. Clean out half a drawer, half a medicine cabinet, some closet space. Help your room to accommodate “him.”

Chuck any stuff under the bed as well as remove kid stuff, work stuff, household chore stuff, and old relationship stuff from this room. If the room still feels dead or low ch’i, then possible add a chime or other “moving object” traditional cure, or even a splash of a bright color to attract new ch’i and pump up the existing ch’i. Try “igniting romance” by lighting a candle in the room. The more you give attention to your intention, the more you will attract it!

 

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