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Feng Shui Tips to WANT TO Want Something Else

by on November 28, 2011 in Blog, Family and Friends, General, Skills and Knowledge

I have noticed a new distinction in some of my recent consultations. Clients have been requesting that they want to want something other than what they want! I have had one client who wants to want to stay in her marriage, one client who wants to want to be straight, one client who wants to want kids, and one client who wants to want to live a BIG life. Dizzying, isn’t it?

Living with these push-me-pull-you feelings is exhausting. Part of them wants one thing, and for some reason or another, part of them wants the exact opposite.

For this situation, ther are many things I might take into consideration. But ALWAYS on the list are the following two:

1. Integrate the conflicting parts. Lucky for me, I have a great technique for this. It is in the consultation that I call “Feng Shui Your Mindset” on my website. It is about re-aligning your thought patterns so that they are going in one direction. Depending on the situation, this usually takes around 3 to 6 hours via the telephone (yes – that’s all!) I have a laser-focused technique that gets every “part” on the same page using neuro-linguistic repatterning and other subconscious “mind reboot” strategies.

If this sounds hard to believe, well – that just may be an unresourceful thought FOR YOU!

2. Look at the Skills and Knowledge and Family guas of the bagua. That is the front left-hand and left side (respectively) of the home or room from coming in the door. ANY confusion there may trigger these thoughts and feelings. It may be clutter, poor symbols leaking chi (big windows, door to door relationship, etc.) or even an element imbalance problem (skills and knowledge gua is governed by earth element and the family gua’s element is wood.)

Working on the skills and knowledge gua can help with the decision-making part (ie: “a part of me wants to do the feng shui your mindset program and a part doesn’t!”) and working on the family gua can help to snip the tether to the past (ie: “My mom said I wasn’t good enough.”) so you can move powerfully into ONE DIRECTION in your future.

If this seems like a level 2 conversation and you are only level 1 or a beginner, review my book or some of the other blog posts here to familiarize yourself with how to do simple changes to change your life!

 

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The bagua map

The Blessing of Synchronicity

by on August 15, 2010 in Helpful People and Travel

There’s a big difference between having to go it alone with the mantra, “If I don’t do it , it doesn’t get done.” and being in sync with life. When you are in sync, life is easier, more fun, and certainly more interesting.

Being in sync is a wondrous thing. People come out of the woodwork to scoot you along in life. This tends to result in you being more confident, more trusting, and ultimately more abundant and comfortable in life.

The door is along the bottom of this map

If you’d like to have a more synchronous life, try this little feng shui tip. Add items made of metal in the front right-hand area of your home, or another room (where it is gray on this map) – even your office where you work – to enliven the energies for synchronicity. This front, right-hand part of your home or room (based upon where you enter through the door) isn’t called the “Helpful People” gua for nothing! It is the part of the feng shui’s bagua pattern that can literally make life easier for you.

Here are some other items that “equal” metal in the wonderful world of feng shui, so feel free to use them instead or as well:

White, light (pastel) and metallic colors, round objects as well as , of course, wrought iron, brass, aluminum (foil even!), chrome, gold, silver, bronze, copper, nickel, etc.

Although, it isn’t required, I like to think about some specific things that I’d like help with as I do spiff up this area, so when something happens, I am reminded that I’m getting results from my feng shui work!

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